Just the highlights
Just the highlights
Philadelphia, 2016. Image edited by Kristie de Garis.
Color image above is at the St-Paul-de-Vence house of James Baldwin.
is a researcher and media producer specializing in minority journalism, trauma, and storytelling. An award-winning writer with a background in psychology, she studies journalist safety at the University of the Basque Country, Bilbao, and is part of the Media, War, and Conflict (MEKK) research group at OsloMet.
Her work has appeared in The Rumpus, This Magazine, and CBC, and has been reported on in The San Francisco Chronicle and The New York Times.
She lives in a cold place very far away.
“We need to listen to the stories of women and non-binary and marginalized people when we think about what we want our cities to look and feel like. We need to devote resources toward finding effective solutions. In response to the pervasiveness of up-skirt photos, Japan required phone makers to keep the shutter sound on when users take photos. Buses and trains in Germany, Mexico, Brazil, India, Japan and Egypt have women-only sections.”
Venue: The Toronto Star.
In February of 2016, I wrote about 29 incidents of sexual violation from my own life. I shared them at rabble.ca, one for each day of the month. The #MeToo movement wouldn’t hit for another two years; Women Who Tell helped to give a framework to the large-scale discussions of sexual assault we see in Canada today.
Venue: rabble.ca
“I had so little of value in my bag, it was tucked into the back of the stroller, and I didn't think someone would attack me just for my stuff with the babies there. I thought he was going to rape me. I suddenly understood that it would be very easy for him to do that.”
Venue: rabble.ca
“Silk stored folded over years will crack along its creases. Some of the stories in this project had been packed so neatly, so tightly, that to open them was to expose their fault lines as they became tatters in my hands. These were the stories that only I remembered and, because I had never told them, had never seen the light of day.”
Venue: rabble.ca
“Two years later, our world has changed. New political leaders, new court cases, new understandings of sexual assault. We have had many hashtags, but #MeToo broke the floodgates. In gymnastics, in politics, in the service industry, in film, in theatre, in tattoo artistry, in media, in agriculture, in tech, in Canlit. Women everywhere are lighting a match.” Image by Kristie de Garis.
Venue: rabble.ca
Canada's Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women
"The idea that Indigenous women are not 'rooted' and exist outside of dominant social mores has long been present in the Canadian colonial context.'
Venue: Feministisk Perspektiv (published in Swedish)
“‘Peel' addresses Tang’s experience of an abusive relationship. And it begins and ends with water, a metaphor for cleansing but also a brilliant expansion of Tang’s range of motion.”
Venue: Theatrius
“Art takes care of people but it doesn’t take care of people the way a mother does. Art also should have the permission to be bad for you. I think mothers should have that permission too, but it’s a different kind of bad for you.” —Sheila Heti
Venue: the Rumpus
“A woman is not expected to go to Burning Man, have an affair with a married man, and leave her well-tended rose bushes for an inflatable mattress on the floor of a dingy apartment. But this is what Sandra Tsing Loh did.”
Venue: Theatrius
“The new practice of placenta encapsulation has allowed placentophagy to move into semi-medicalized settings where it occupies a liminal space, a melding of biomedical and postmodern health ideals.”
Venue: Pregnancy and Childbirth: History, Medicine, and Anthropology, edited by Costanza Dopfel, Saint Mary’s College.
Birth stories are fascinating from a narrative, psychological, and sociological perspective. I asked members of the Birth Without Fear community to share the things that stopped them from writing their birth stories and the things that helped them. This is what they said.
Venue: Birth Without Fear
“We’ve all heard that ‘all that matters is a healthy baby’. We hear it before we give birth, and we hear it after. We hear it when a mother’s had a cesarean and a subsequent infection, when she has Post-Partum Depression and when she is reeling from trauma. But it’s not true. A healthy baby is not all that matters.”
Venue: Birth Without Fear
“Often you only have minutes to meet the patient before almost immediately being in an emotional and stressful situation. You have to get them to trust you and make a connection as soon as possible.” —Christy Anderson, Obstetrics Nurse, O2012
Venue: Mama to Mama Online
“The Anti-Choicers denigrate and pity women who choose not to reproduce, including Norma and her decades-long partner Connie. Am I, in caring for Norma only when she shows her grief at losing her children, doing anything different?”
Venue: Theatrius
“The shame that cloaks women’s bodies in all their reproductive functions was present in my shock and horror at the amount of milk my body was forcing out of me, and how unfeminine(!) it felt.”
Venue: Birth Without Fear
“Even the fabrics are intimate—we cannot hide from their materiality, their softness and texture, their positioning on the floor. This is so striking because although it seems very much alive, it also serves as a reminder of death, or our own mortality.”
Venue: VAV Gallery Catalogue
Interviewer, Unquiet Form Closing Talk, the Compound Gallery
Art TV,
Oct 14 2018
Temescal BID,
June 24 2018
Performer, New Talent Showcase
The Marsh Theatre,
Sept 10 and 17, 2017
Berkeley Homeless Encampment Dismantled
New York Times reporter Katie Rogers interviewed me about my holiday card and how it addressed, in some small way, the results of the 2016 election. This piece includes the narratives of other women making similar gestures toward resistance.
I won an award! They put me in a magazine!
“University College introduced the Young Alumni of Influence Award in order to recognize the achievements of graduates who are in the early phases of their careers. The prize honours UC alumni under the age of 35 who have demonstrated exceptional leadership in their fields and communities.”
It was a busy weekend of protests against alt-right meetups in the Bay Area that weekend. My daughter and I dressed up and carried a sign that said ‘Princess VS Nazis’. Chosen as one of 24 most creative signs from the protests that weekend by Alix Martichoux.
My daughter and I appear, in the midst of this hysterical article, to be having a great time in our anti-Nazi princess dresses. Photo by Jim Wilson.
Interviewed by Aela Mass for Babble.com. We talk about the inaugural Birth Without Fear conference in Arlington, TX, which I helped to organize and where I presented a talk on postpartum care. October 12th, 2013.